Do you place yourself in the center of your life? By doing so, you create a perspective that will serve yourself and others to maximum advantage. Too often, we hear that focus on self is selfishness. It is not. Putting yourself in the center allows you to look out at the world with your unique eyes and make the best decisions and choices for you. If, as you do this, you honor your values it is a win-win for all.
Let’s say that you have a situation at work where you are starting to burn out because you are working long hours. Does it serve everyone to put yourself second and ignore the toll it is taking on you? Or, does it serve everyone better if you acknowledge what is happening, let those who need to know and get yourself in balance so that you can get the job done well? I think the latter.
Putting yourself in the center steadies you and allows those around you to see you clearly.