Although stability can be fleeting, it is still worthwhile to focus on creating it. Stability is a foundation – you know your values, you know the elements of your life, you know your strengths and weaknesses and you have goals and a sense of the direction you want to go in. True, all kinds of things can upset your stability. It is easier, however, to regain stability after an upset if you had it before the upset occurred.
Adding change or upset to chaos and lack of direction creates instability and can wreak havoc in your life and career.
Looking to assess your level of stability? Here are some questions to get you started:
• What are the elements of your life that you can count on?
• How secure do you feel in your current work/career?
• Do you trust your instincts?
• Have you any true assurances that what you have now will stay around for a while?
• How well have you prepared for recovering from a crisis (e.g. loss of a job)?
• Have you identified your key life values? Do you honor them daily?
• How comfortable are you in dealing with change?
“True stability results when presumed order and presumed disorder are balanced. A truly stable system expects the unexpected, is prepared to be disrupted, waits to be transformed.” – Tom Robbins
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