I am observing more and more often, people going so fast that they lose control. Do you attempt to travel at warp speed? Really – you can go faster than the speed of light? Let’s reflect a moment. Yes, the world is speeding up and there are many tools to help us travel with it. However, it is very easy to burn out.
If you are acting as if you can travel at warp speed, perhaps some adjustments are called for. Let go of super-size expectations that you cannot meet. Find ways to travel quickly but prevent yourself from burning out, which defeats the purpose. Key to this is centering. Stay fully present, balanced and aware of time. In doing this, you will be able to handle whatever comes along.
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Do you ever take one day off? Your immediate answer may be, “yes, of course I do”. The last time you took a day off, was work completely absent from that day?
With the fast pace of today’s work world, “hard stops” often are one of the best ways to assure balance. By “hard stop” I mean completely disconnecting from work and focusing on relaxation and other aspects of your life.
There are many ways to make hard stops. One way is to take a day off from work each week. Another way may be taking one weekend a month and getting away. Yet another, may be allowing yourself to make some outside commitments that require your time away from work, such as coaching your son or daughter’s sports team or volunteering time for something you are passionate about.
It is not always easy to make a hard stop. You may run on autopilot, with no room for stopping. Your mind may tell you that you have to continue running or you will never keep up at work. A good way to get started is to try making a hard stop just once. Pick a day in the next two weeks and completely disconnect from work. Fill the day with relaxation and things you enjoy. Let the experience inform you about your own need to balance. My hope is that there will be enough pleasure and benefit from your one day off, that you will do it again!
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